Separateness and Togetherness
Shows respect in public, and when alone with others, doesn't say, do, or behave any differently than if partner was there.
Responsibility, accountability and empathy
Flexibility and adaptability (as the seasons so to speak, change, can you transition and ebb and flow)
Honoring original contracts, and revisiting them if needed.
Stay connected.
They greet each other kindly and lovingly
hugs
Choose to love.
meals together
Flooding of positive moments
never threaten leaving
forgiveness
eye contact
turn towards one another
work on themselves with the purpose of showing up better
communication is priority
take time outs together - dates, vacations
Practice the “medicines”
They accept one another for who they are.
INVENTORY
Take inventory on these relationship habits and honor yourself and your relationship by acknowledging where you are doing well! Then on the habits that could be worked on, write out your ideas of how they can be improved upon.